Mary is here name let's from her. She is sad, depressed and feels left out. And she ask herself why people does not include her with their plans?
But the truth is she have overlooked the fact that she always wait for people to call her, make a move and ask her to join them. People get tired of persuading you into things. They want enthusiasm. You have to let them feel that you are ready to participate in life. And the very first step to do is get out and be willing to meet other people. You don't meet friends in front of your TV or inside your refrigerator.
Mary can become an initiator and call up some old friends. " Hi Karen! You may not remember me but I lived across the street. Would you like to go out for pizza?" or Hi John i am thinking of doing cycling or hang gliding, will you join me?"
The world is really full of people who have conquered their shyness or should I say (arrogance). and have open new horizons in life. If you are planning to make some changes and some friends then be prepared to get occasional knockback. Just continue to make the effort and you'll be rewarded.
When you form friendship you do not expect anything in return, in that way you will not be disappointed. Others may return favors and affection and some won't. If you care for people it's because you want to and you are happy doing it not because you expect something back. You won't feel crushed if they fail to return a thought or favor. The world is fair and just. If you are giving out care and affection, good thing will back to you that you don't even expect.
Have a Great Life to All....
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